A general theorem in spectral extremal graph theory

Abstract: The extremal graphs $\mathrm{EX}(n,\mathcal F)$ and spectral extremal graphs $\mathrm{SPEX}(n,\mathcal F)$ are the sets of graphs on $n$ vertices with maximum number of edges and maximum spectral radius, respectively, with no subgraph in $\mathcal F$. We prove a general theorem which allows us to characterize the spectral extremal graphs for a wide range of forbidden families $\mathcal F$ and implies several new and existing results. In particular, whenever $\mathrm{EX}(n,\mathcal F)$ contains the complete bipartite graph $K_{k,n-k}$ (or certain similar graphs) then $\mathrm{SPEX}(n,\mathcal F)$ contains the same graph when $n$ is sufficiently large. We prove a similar theorem which relates $\mathrm{SPEX}(n,\mathcal F)$ and $\mathrm{SPEX}\alpha(n,\mathcal F)$, the set of $\mathcal F$-free graphs which maximize the spectral radius of the matrix $A\alpha=\alpha D+(1-\alpha)A$, where $A$ is the adjacency matrix and $D$ is the diagonal degree matrix.