The Homework Wars: Exploring Emotions, Behaviours, and Conflicts in Parent-Child Homework Interactions

Abstract: Parental involvement in homework is a crucial aspect of family education, but it often leads to emotional strain and conflicts that can severely impact family well-being. This paper presents findings from a 4-week in situ study involving 78 families in China, where we collected and analyzed 602 valid audio recordings (totalling 475 hours) and daily surveys. Leveraging LLMs to analyze parent-child conversations, we gained a nuanced understanding of emotional and behavioural dynamics that overcomes the limitations of traditional one-time surveys and interviews. Our findings reveal significant emotional shifts in parents before and after homework involvement and summarise a range of positive, neutral and negative parental behaviours. We also catalogue seven common conflicts, with Knowledge Conflict being the most frequent. Notably, we found that even well-intentioned parental behaviours, such as Unlabelled Praise, were significantly positively correlated with specific conflict types. This work advances ubiquitous computing's research to sense and understand complex family dynamics, while offering evidence-based insights for designing future ambient intelligent systems to support healthy family education environments.